Josh R. Says:
I want to retire overseas, and I plan to learn Spanish. But I’m nervous about making myself understood and understanding those around me as I figure out the language. Do you have any advice?
IL Executive Editor Jennifer Stevens Says:
Hi Josh,
Learning at least some Spanish is an excellent idea if you plan to live in a Spanish-speaking country. Even a little goes a long way, and those around you will appreciate any efforts you make.
I get that it can seem daunting at first, but it won’t be as bad as you think. To illustrate this, I’m reminded of a story Jason Holland, an IL contributor who lived overseas for years, once told me:
“We once had a friend from Florida visit us in Costa Rica. She was a regular guest during our time down there—she loves travel and Central America in particular. But it was her new husband’s first time in the country, even though he’s from Nicaragua, just to the north.
“He doesn’t speak any English, although he does recognize a few words and phrases.
“I learned something during their visit…something fundamental. You see, when our group was speaking English, I often turned to our friend’s husband to translate (I speak Spanish). A few times he would tell me, ‘I got it.’
“Even though he doesn’t speak English, by hearing one of the few words he knows… reading the body language of the speaker… and knowing the context of the conversation… he could pick up at least the gist of what was said. Sometimes he was right on the money.”
The lesson here applies to anyone learning a foreign language: You’re not starting from zero. We’re all human beings. We’ve had similar experiences in life. We have common ground. That’s true no matter where you are from. Plus, many aspects of communication are non-verbal.
We can draw on all of that as we talk to each other. And people who don’t speak each other’s language can make themselves understood. Of course, that’s true only to a point. Our shared human experience provides us with only a good base.
To really effectively communicate—especially if you plan to move abroad— you will have to study. Learn some key words and phrases at first…enough to have simple conversations with neighbors and shopkeepers. And then gradually expand your vocabulary. Soon you’ll be able to have meaningful conversations and really connect with your new neighbors.
The most important part of learning is practice. So don’t be afraid to get out there. Remember, you already understand—and can make yourself understood—more than you know.
And if you’d like to get a jump on learning Spanish before you move, I highly recommend Warren Hardy’s online Spanish course. Warren specializes in teaching basic, useful Spanish that you can put into use immediately to make yourself understood among your new neighbors.
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